Throughout the first half of my childhood, I grew up in a diverse neighborhood. For a couple summers, my sister and I would go to my friend Reema’s house every day while my parents were at work. At lunch time, her mom would lay down newspapers on the floor of the living room, where we ate hummus, stuffed grape leaves, pickled peppers, fried potatoes and tabbouleh.
After lunch, her father and uncle would sit in the garage with their hookahs while we ran off to her dad’s Krauszers to grab a free choco taco or oatmeal cream pie. Good times.
We moved to a different town just before I entered the eight grade–a town where the teachers kept calling me Jennifer or Evaline (the only two other Asian 13-year-old girls within a twenty mile radius), and where, the first time I had dinner at a new friend’s house, I had a slice of cheese pizza, milk, and a Centrum vitamin for dinner.
I’m not sure if it was the Centrum that did it, or maybe that tall glass of whole milk, but I suddenly was torn between loving all the home-cooked dishes my parents prepared (they were certainly better than a side dish of chalky vitamins), and a My-Big-Fat-Greek-Wedding sort of anxiety about them.
(Not to mention anxiety over the time my grandpa went to the local sit-down pizza place with us, grabbed a butter knife and a slice of white broccoli, and started shoveling cheese into his mouth with the butter knife like it was a pair of chopsticks and he was eating a bowl of rice. People stared. I died).
In that first year, when I was in I’m-the-new-kid-please-like-me mode, I was insecure—dare I say, embarrassed?—about the food that was being prepared daily for dinner at our house. No more tabbouleh at Reema’s, man.
Friends would come over, and I would feel the need to request spaghetti or lasagna or something–anything but the tofu, the stir-fries, and the steamed fish that showed up nightly on our table.
I was Toula, eating moose caca while all the other blonde, delicate girls had wonder bread.
For the record, moussaka is delicious. Obviously.
I have particularly vivid memories about this spicy cold tofu dish (with thousand year old egg included), 13-year-old-me thinking—oh my god people probably think we’re so weird.
It wasn’t until I got to high school and realized that my antisocial tendencies would probably prevent anyone from discovering we were tofu-eating weirdos anyway that I calmed down about the whole thing.
And then in college, I had a Korean roommate, and she’d bring Korean blood sausage, kimchi, and pig’s feet from home. This pretty much kicked the insecurity for good.
I started making this dish a lot in my dorm room, because it doesn’t require any cooking. I’d just take the necessary ingredients out of the mini fridge, steal some scallions and garlic from the dining center, and keep tofu in the fridge.
My roommate and I would steam some rice and eat this spicy cold tofu while watching Disney movies on VHS. And it wasn’t weird at all.
Recipe Instructions
Put the soy sauce, spicy bean paste (douban jiang), sesame oil, and sugar in a small bowl. Add half the garlic and half the scallions. Mix it all together.
Slice the silken tofu and lay it in your serving bowl. Drizzle the sauce over it and garnish with the rest of the garlic and scallion on top.
You can also garnish with a bit of chopped Thai basil and/or chopped cilantro.
Mix it up and serve with rice as a side dish.
If you’re feelin’ crazy, you can add a chopped thousand year old egg in there, which is basically a preserved duck egg, often used in cold tofu dishes like this in China. I saw a girl literally tear up and almost barf trying to eat one of these on Fear Factor once. Big baby.
Take this from someone who resisted them for a long time…they’re actually pretty good. In any case, you can go egg-in or egg-out with this, your choice!
Serve this spicy cold tofu as an appetizer, side dish, or as a main dish with a bowl of hot rice!
Spicy Cold Tofu (Liangban Dofu)
Ingredients
- 1 tablespoon soy sauce
- 1 tablespoon spicy bean paste
- 1 teaspoon sesame oil
- ½ teaspoon sugar
- 2 cloves garlic (minced)
- 2 tablespoons scallion (chopped)
- 1 pound silken tofu
- Optional: chopped thai basil, chopped cilantro, or chopped thousand year old egg
Instructions
- Put the soy sauce, bean paste, sesame oil, and sugar in a small bowl. Add half the garlic and half the scallions. Mix it all together.
- Slice the tofu and lay it in your serving bowl.
- Drizzle the sauce over it and garnish with the rest of the garlic and scallion on top. You can also garnish with a bit of chopped Thai basil and/or cilantro. You can also stir in a chopped thousand year old egg.
This is peak lazy Asian cooking and I love it. I easily sucked down half a container of tofu in one sitting, and was happy to have a new way to use my century eggs. The flavor profile was great with the heat from the douban jiang, and the sharpness of raw garlic, etc.
I love these kinds of savory, soft dishes- I even just dump Asian sesame salad dressing on silken tofu… a super lazy “recipe” I picked up from a sample table at a Korean supermarket LOL. They make an easy meal, but also great to round out other heavy/hot dishes for some variety.
Hahahaha love this! Thank you and so happy you enjoyed it!
So fast, easy, and tasty. I love keeping silken tofu in the pantry. Such a lusciously smooth texture. Thank you for sharing another way to serve it.
You’re welcome, Katy!
I adore your family and the story attached to this recipe. Wholeheartedly relate as an Indian, and doubly appreciate this site for such a wonderful, delicious, and delightful collection of recipes. Thanks for sharing a piece of your lives :)
P.S. Tofu haters are total squares, in my opinion!
Hahaha you’re welcome! :) Thanks for reading and glad you can relate to those awkward years. Cheers to finally being loud and proud about our food!
I loved the recipe but I really loved this story contextualizing the dish in your life. It reminds me of how proud (and then crushed and horrified) I was to bring my grandma’s Chopped Liver to my 4th grade “International Luncheon”. All the kids thought this amazing and precious family dish – which I loved- was gross. Thank you and your family for sharing ALL of the wonderful recipes on this blog – it’s my favorite – and for sharing this lovely story about remembering/reclaiming how awesome and delicious family cooking actually is.
AWWWW, Daniel! We also did an “international luncheon” in elementary school (for me it was in 3rd grade), and I brought some boring Chinese sponge cake to fly under the radar. At least you had the courage to bring something you really loved! Also, for the record, we LOVE chopped liver (started eating it as kids because our uncle was Jewish, and my dad grew up in the “Borscht Belt” of the Catskills). I would’ve eaten it right there with you at the 4th grade lunch (more for us!). I’m sure your grandma’s chopped liver was delicious. Thanks for sharing your story and for your kind words that put a smile on my face this morning!
Sarah, your equally sweet reply makes MY day. Cheers to ALL the chopped liver AND spicy cold tofu. You all really are the best. :)
I used medium firm tofu and it was still amazing! I added a few dashes of fish sauce to add a meatier flavor.
Oooohh…fish sauce sounds like a great addition.
Nice!
Thanks, this was totally amazing. Woks of Life is my go-to for Chinese food recipes. Trying to be more plant based in my eating. Recipes like this make it a no-brainer.
Thank you Rebecca! So happy you liked this recipe—one of my go-to’s!
So, I made this today. Followed the recipe as listed, except I added .5 T of hot chili oil. SO good. I could have eaten the whole thing by myself, but I somehow stopped. Will definitely make this again.
So glad you liked it Ryan!
Two questions-
1. You don’t blanche or cook the silken tofu at all?
2. Do you refrigerate the tofu first, or after you prepare leave it in the fridge for a bit (i.e., how is it cold otherwise)?
Thanks
Ack, sorry I missed this comment! No, you can eat the tofu without cooking it first. It’s actually made from heated/cooked soy milk. Since it’s stored in the refrigerator and remains uncooked, it is cold when you prepare it. Though you can let it come up to room temp if you’d like!
So delicious! Refreshing on a hot evening – I could eat this tofu every day, all summer.
:) This dish really is so perfect for summer.
This made me so happy tonight. I’ve been living in a small town in Mexico for the last year and have been homesick for my family and Chinese food. I made this tonight and, amazingly, had all of the ingredients at the ready. It was wholly comforting and satisfying with a big bowl of rice. One change I made was to substitute the minced garlic for grated ginger, as raw garlic upsets my stomach. The ginger was delicious. Thank you!
You’re so welcome, Aria! Sorry I missed this lovely comment!